The Barren Librarian – you must have sent the vibes out for me to get an earlier call today! The results are in:
Beta #3 at 15dp5dt is 709!
That is a doubling time of 35.5 hours since Beta #2 on Monday.
We are officially pregnant!
No more betas! WHOHOO! 🙂
I have my initial OB consult at 6 weeks next Wednesday, Feb 18th. One of the joys of having a previous ectopic pregnancy = you get monitored sooner. Unless the OB does a scan in-office next week, my first ultrasound is being scheduled for 7 weeks.
As for symptoms, I’m currently EXHAUSTED. I am normally a night owl, but I’ve been in bed between 8-9pm each night.
My sore boobs come and go, but my ta-tas are already getting bigger. I feel like a fem-bot with my perky nips.
I’m also constantly hungry! NOM NOM NOM Seriously, I woke up to pee (oh yeah – always peeing) at 3am and I could have sat down for a 4 course meal. I’m making an effort to increase my protein and water intake to curb the hunger.
The bloated feeling comes and goes, but I’m not even close to as big as I was after my fresh retrieval. I can’t complain about that!
I’m 5 weeks today. My nurse calculated our due date is October 15th, 2015.
Our due date is the day before my husband’s birthday! I keep telling him he’s not getting a store bought present this year. I’m growing him the best present ever! ❤
And now… I’m going home to sleep. ZZZZzzzzzzzzzz
And the results are OFFICIALLY in…
Beta #2 at 13dp5dt was 278!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
This was way higher than we had guessed with a doubling time of 30.8 hours.
I very relieved right now.
I go again on Wednesday for Beta #3.
Thank you for all the prayers, love, light, sticky vibes, support, concern, and care. XO
Also, a huge THANK YOU to Alicia from Ladylove & Babydust for this beautiful necklace. I wore it on Friday and today as my good luck charm. I will wear it again on Wednesday too. ❤
Beta #2 has been drawn. Only one poke again! We are on a roll here!
I am currently
anxiously patiently awaiting the call from my favourite nurse.
If you are looking for a humourous distraction on this snowy Monday morning, check out Infertility explained by 33 impossibly adorable cats on Buzzfeed.
Baby dust to all! XO
My intentions for this weekend were:
- to distract my mind from Monday’s beta results
- to be gentle with myself and do what my mind/body needs
- to feel peace and love
It’s been fairly easy to stay in neutral territory this weekend. We’ve kept ourselves busy and I’ve stayed off the internet as much as possible.
Friday night, my husband called his Aunt and asked if we could come for supper. Whenever we are both anxious or stressed (especially after waiting all day to receive Beta #1), we don’t feel like cooking. Rather than getting take out, we went for a home-cooked meal with people who support us. We didn’t stay out too late as I’ve been exhausted lately. I was in bed by 9pm which is very unlike me. I clearly needed it, so I went with it.
We had a funeral yesterday for my husband’s best friend’s dad. I seriously contemplated not going as I wasn’t sure I wanted to be around sorrow. I decided that I should go to support my husband. It also was a good opportunity to practice love and forgiveness. I made sure to protect myself before I left and brought a few crystals along to help. Throughout the ceremony, I sent reiki to those that seemed to be suffering the most. I honestly didn’t feel much sorrow (thank goodness!) until we went to the grave site. My mother-in-law and father-in-law were both crying. It was a very enlightening moment to see them express such emotion (as my husband comes from a family that rarely shows emotion). Overall, I had a decent day visiting with friends and family. It really made the value of family obvious to me. A man died who left behind the legacy of his family. I hope that one day I have children and grand-children who have such fond memories of me.
Today, I had a chick flick marathon since cable TV is crawling with them leading up to Valentine’s Day. I also played a game on my phone that I downloaded after so many of you suggested it would be a good distraction. Boy were you right! I’m currently building a butterfly colony. Figured it would maybe give me good vibes since the butterfly is a symbol of fertility. 🙂
I haven’t let myself get excited, but I continue to acknowledge my baby(ies?). I’ve been connecting my heart to my womb and sending my babies love. Over the past few weeks, I’ve realized I can be connected to my babies without being as emotionally attached as I was before we lost our little girl.
This whole process has really given me an opportunity feel how different it is when you take thing as them come.
One of my best friends said to me, “It’s out of your control now“.
She’s undoubtedly right.
What will be will be.
Tomorrow will give us a better idea.
I’m glad I’ve been able to find a sense of calm this weekend as we move through our wait. One day at a time…
I had my cell phone by my side with the ringer on all day – minus one 5 minute stint where I left my office. Well of course, that’s when the clinic called. I waited another hour and a half to hear back.
My 1st Beta at 10dp5dt is 55.
My clinic normally doesn’t do betas until 12dp5dt. I convinced them to let me go 2 days early after I got my thrush (which is almost cleared up by the way). My IVF nurse said she considers this a positive first beta – especially since it’s earlier than they normally test.
During my ectopic pregnancy, I took HCG boosters daily up until my beta. This meant I had an accumulation of HCG in my system before my 1st beta of 47 on 12dp5dt. After that, my 2nd beta only rose to 52. There was a good chance my initial HCG was less than 20 as the HCG booster was doing just that – boosting my beta.
Starting off with a beta of 55 – 2 days earlier than my previous cycle test date – is potentially a good sign. It doesn’t mean I’m in the clear, but I won’t fret so much until we get our next beta on Monday. If it’s over 100, I will take a deep breath and pray that things continue on the up and up.
My blood lab experience was super positive this morning. I walked in and only had 1 person in the waiting room a head of me. One poke (SHOCKING! I know this NEVER happens!) and I was out the door in 13 minutes. I just knew this had to be the start of a positive day for us.
Keep me and my baby in your prayers. I’m riding on all of your positivity until I feel that I can sustain my own.
I don’t know what I’d do without my cheering squad. XO
Since the Barren Librarian asked for it, here’s a pic of the squinter:
Where do we stand?
No more pee sticks
I have decided no more POAS-ing. I will leave fate up to my betas from here on out.
Tomorrow, I will go for my 1st Beta at 10dp5dt. My 2nd Beta will be Monday at 13dp5dt.
We are not letting ourselves get excited. I know, I know. That’s the whole torture factor of infertility. Fear overrides joy. However, my high ectopic risk puts on on edge.
My eternal optimist husband and my negative self have decided to meet halfway. Neutral territory is best right now until we know what tomorrow brings.
Remember the lessons we’ve learned
I won’t deny it. This situation is making me flash back to our last beta limbo. There are many lessons we’ve learned since then:
- Obsessing over it won’t change the outcome
- What is going to be will be
- Worrying is not worth the anxiety
- Don’t let fear overcome you. Much easier said than done.
- Recognize your support network. Don’t try to get support from those who aren’t capable of giving it.
- When times get difficult, come together, not apart. Surround yourself with love.
- Ask for help when you need it. There is no shame in admitting you need help.
- Keep yourself occupied
If you can’t tell, I’m afraid. I’m very afraid. It’s like ressurecting all of my PTSD from our last pregnancy loss. I know miracles can happen, but I’m also not willing to build myself up to come crashing down even harder.
That’s it folks. Only time will tell.
And the news I’ve been waiting for…
My uterine lining is currently 8.4mm and my Estradiol is 814.
I always second guess my body, but turns out it’s right on schedule!
FET is officially scheduled for noon on Tuesday, January 27th.
Starting this Thursday, my routine will be:
- Estrace – 4 mg 2x daily
- Asprin – 1 daily
- Prenatal Vitamins & supplements
- Prometrium – 100 mg 2x daily
- Progesterone in Oil – 1 ml intramuscularly daily meaning ASS SHOT
- Doxycylcine – 100 mg 2x daily for 5 days
We fly out on Sunday night and return on Wednesday night.
My Beta is February 9th.
AHHHHHHHHHHHH! SHIT JUST GOT REAL!
Now that I’ve got that out of my system, I’m off to do my fertility yoga. 🙂
Thanks for your support and kind words of encouragement. It’s seems almost surreal that our FET is almost here. ❤