I’m kinda, maybe a little bit, alright… I’m fully Netflix obsessed.
Right now, I’m watching Call the Midwife: Season 3. If you are a fan and have not yet watched this season, it’s an emotional one!
In the episode I watched tonight, one woman said to another while she was grieving the loss of a loved one,
“You keep on living until you are alive again.”
Having experienced a pregnancy loss only 3 short months ago, this statement rings true to me.
I felt lost, alone and without purpose immediately following our ectopic pregnancy. I was an emotional wreck for an entire month.
Tonight, I realized it was my husband’s hope that drew me out of my darkness and back into the light. In the days following our loss, he was focused on the next cycle. Yes, I see this may have been an avoidance tactic. But honestly, his hope for something good to come gave me hope and drive to keep on living until I felt alive again.
So, here we both are. Our marriage is stronger and more intimate. We have overcome fears, found our greatest strengths, and now we are ready to take the next step into parenthood.
Does this mean we weren’t ready before? No, it just means we have found a different sense of readiness. We have become different versions of ourselves through our grief and sorrow.
Even with our loss, I am grateful for the blessings that have come from it. I have no regrets over the past 6 months. Each step we took on this journey led us to where we are today. I can’t dwell on the what ifs and the if only’s. I have to release what is behind us and embrace what is to come.
My embryos – soon to be baby(ies?) – are my purpose. I am alive and well because they – and their Dad – give me hope.
I can’t predict the future, but I sure can hope and dream of better days to come. ❤
I love, love, love this post because I love hope (98% of the time). I firmly believe hope is the only reason we’ve survived the last few years and just like you we are stronger today as a couple because of it. Keep hope and keep living. So beautiful!
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I got so mad the first few days after our loss when he was so full of hope. Now I see how good it was for me. 🙂
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I love this post! And i am hoping with you sugars! Xo
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This made me smile. Xo
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What a beautiful post. How far you have come together. Long live hope!
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Beautiful post!
I’ve not heard of Call the Midwives…I’ll check it out. I love the quote! It can relate to so many parts of life, love and loss.
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p.s. *hugs* so glad you are feeling better and you’ve got hope in you yet.
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I love this post too and now resonate with it in a way I couldn’t before.
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Beautifully stated. Grief and sorrow definitely change us, but I love that you can be so hopeful and positive, recognizing that you are simply different versions of what you used to be and that you have become stronger for it.
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Cheers to you and cheers to hope! Xo.
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Hope is everything! Thanks so much for writing this. It really resonated with me.
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Love this, hope is such a life saver in the midst of loss and heartache. It’s hard to see at times, but that’s when we have someone close to us giving hope when we can’t! XO
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So happy that you’re doing so much better with things. Keep that hope alive, and don’t let go of it!!
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I just got netflix & binge-watched Call the Midwife! I LOVE IT! Also binge-watched Orange is the New Black, which is intense but captivating. Do you have any recommendations? XOXO
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House of Cards is alright. I just watched Marco Polo. Ohhh Mad Men and Californication I also enjoyed. But both can be lewd.
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Thanks lady! Maybe Mad Men will be my next venture. XOXO
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