I won’t deny it. My hope is dwindling.
Since my Beta of 47 on 12dp5dt, I’ve pretty much lost all symptoms. I had huge swollen, sore boobs. I couldn’t lie comfortably due to the tug in my lower abdomen. I had to pee every hour. I was EXHAUSTED.
There is a slight tug, ever so slight, but the rest is gone. Last night, I even slept through the night without having to pee.
The only thing that throws me off was I experienced some brown spotting yesterday afternoon. It was gone by the evening, but I hoped so much that my bean was just snuggling in.
Being the crazy POAS addict that I am, I peed on a FRER about an hour ago (yes folks, that was 3am SK time) . It had lightened up to the equivalent of what I saw at 9dp5dt.
That is not a good sign.
I’m going into this beta expecting it to drop. I feel like I’ve lost my little bean. I know I felt pregnant three days ago and now, I don’t.
I’ve got 2 hours until I need to get up and battle the old people for a spot in line at the blood lab. I better get some sleep. 😦
😦 thinking of you and hoping for better news. The waits are so horrible and stressful xxx
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Thinking of you too! Hugs!!
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Hugs!!! Thinking of you!!!!!
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Thinking of you and hoping your results today show some good news!
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*Hugs* ❤ XOXO
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Don’t dispair just yet dear… I am not in favor of feuling false hopes but I promise you that losing symptoms is frequently NOT a good indication of how things are progressing… I DO have hope for you and am keeping you in my thoughts and prays today. XOXO
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Thinking of you and hoping for the best – so many hugs!
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Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers…big hugs coming your way!!!
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I just want to scream, curse, stomp my feet and wring the Universe’s neck for dealing you this cruel blow. I am so, so, so sorry. You know I wanted this for you so much – we all did. I am adding my warm hugs and thoughts to those of others.
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Thank you. I now understand all the pain that anyone who has faced this before me went through. There is nothing more cruel than loosing a child no matter how big it was.
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You know I know what you mean and my heart is so heavy for you. I am so deeply sad and sorry, sweetheart. The hurt is tremendous.
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I don’t want to give you false hope, but I’ve heard many times that our bodies adjust a bit to the extra progesterone… I’ll be thinking of you and praying hard!
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Thanks Stef! I really hope so but at this point all I can do is wait for that call.
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Thinking of you! I’m sorry you have to go through the beta stress. Hoping for happy news.
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Lots of love and good vibes!!
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I’ll be thinking of you and hoping for you! I understand the fears with the loss of symptoms – I’ve had that with each one of our losses – but according to every doctor I’ve seen, it can mean nothing. So don’t lose hope until you have no choice to.
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What about the lighter pee stick? I know the clinic might say it’s because I stopped the hcg booster… But then my blood work would be less too? Right? No matter what I have a feeling I’ll be going back for one more beta.
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it could just be the time of day combined with the hcg booster stopping. There are just so many factors at play that i hope you can hold onto the little glimmers of hope!
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Thinking about you and I hope you get a fighting spirit beta today. This process is so hard and beta limbo is the worst pain. Praying for you.
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I also want to say that 47 is double the lowest that I’ve heard. It can happen. I know the emotional see saw between giving up and trying to hold on to hope is a terrible one, but please know that we are all here rooting for you today.
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Thank you. I pray that things turn around but at this point, it’s out of my hands.
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Thinking about you. Xx
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I’m sorry you’re going through this. Sending up a prayer. (((hugs)))
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I am holding my breath. Waiting for your beta update. Hoping for the best. I will surely cry if you get bad news. Whatever happens, we are here for you. Always remember that.
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Holding you in my thoughts… ❤
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I’m really hoping that you get good results today. Thinking about you!
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Hey – I just noticed something. “Since my Beta of 47 on 12dp5dt, I’ve pretty much lost all symptoms”. On that same day, they asked you to stop taking HCG. So many your drop in symptoms is from discontinuing that?! 🙂
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I took one last shot that day. So, yesterday was my first day without it. I really have no clue right now. I just hope this morning goes by fast and they get the results early afternoon.
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I hope they are good and call you asap! The waiting is absolutely brutal. Thinking of you all day!
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They usually call as soon as they know but for some reason it’s been taking forever for my results to get faxed over lately. I think I found out around 3:45 on Wednesday.
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Thinking of you and praying for miracles to surround you!! Xo
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You have no idea how badly I want this to turn around for you. I am holding my breath until you post your results. One of us needs to have some success from this IVF cycle. Hang in there–you have so many people rooting for you.
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Sending you lots of love love.
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Remember that you are no longer taking the false HCG, so all symptoms will be greatly lessened. I think it’s good to be realistic in case the news isn’t what you’d hoped for. I hope it’s the opposite. Xo
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I had a dream about this last night. I also read something I want to share with you, but I’m going to wait until you get your results and then I’ll email you. I’m so hoping this all turns around for you.
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Thank you. I wish for that too but I feel like all my hope is drained. I am grateful to have all of you to lift me up.
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I know the feeling. It’s ok to let yourself down easy before the fall (if the fall happens), at least then if there is good news it will be happier.
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Keeping you in my thoughts today
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Sending you really positive thoughts, read your blog daily and really hoping and praying for you x
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I’m so sorry hun! Sending you lots of prayers, and a BIG HUUUUUUUUG!!!!!!
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Hoping for the best for you, and that the time goes quickly until you hear more.
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Do whatever you have to do to get through today. I hope that you get the news you hope for not the news you fear and know that if you need an ear I’ve got two x
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Hugs, hugs, and more hugs! ❤
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Thinking of you too hon and praying so hard for good news on Monday.
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