12 dpiui.
BFN.
Am I allowed to say this cycle is a bust yet?
Google says some people get BFPs after 12dpiui, but I think it’s more of an urban legend than truth.
Th prego tests are going back in the cupboard for now. I will let Friday’s Beta determine my fate.
Awaiting Autumn 
So sorry to hear this!! Thinking of you!
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I’m so sorry. I remember that feeling too well last month. Praying for a miraculous finish for you. Xo
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It can happen, I’m proof! My one (and sadly short lived) BFP on a pee stick didn’t show until two full days after my blood test. It could be late implantation so fingers crossed for you. Hope to hear good news from you soon.
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Im so sorry girl but please try not to test anymore. It just makes u crazy. Wait for the beta…there is still hope!
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sorry for your negative! Praying that the beta says otherwise!
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Yesterday (14dpiui) was BFN for me as well. I am testing again Friday if AF doesnt show up (it probably will, lol)
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Are you on progesterone? That’s the kicker for me. My period won’t show til I stop taking it.
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No i am not – AF showed up today. I am crossing my fingers you get your BFP 🙂 🙂 Good luck!
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I’m kicking the fertility gods in the pants for you.
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Hahaha thanks!!!
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❤
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Noo! 😦 I am so sorry. Hugs to you.
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Thank you Mrs. Vukstead. Will be thinking of you tomorrow
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I am right there with you. I was BFN on day 11. I do blood work Friday too. 😦 I am on progesterone too. Either way, we got this!! Is this your first attempt?
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Nope 4th medicated cycle, 3rd IUI.
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My aunt has been pregnant 4 times and was never able to get a BFP! WAAAHH Thats right! She always had to go get blood tests… dont count yourself out until you see red!
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Yeah I’m still going for my Beta on Friday. Convinced myself to keep taking my progesterone til then.
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Ugh 😦 So frustrating! Praying the blood work shows differently. I am praying for you. With this being our first attempt I certainly have gained an entirely new appreciation for people who have battled this for months or years. I was even expecting a BFN with it being our first attempt and it still makes it hard to look down and see 😦
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It’s always hard. I seriously can’t even imagine how ecstatic I’ll be when I finally see that BFP.
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Right? I play that game in my head too! Or hear them tell me on the phone? I am pretty sure disbelief would be my first reaction, unfortunately!
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Ya I’m horrible. When I suspect it’s negative from POASing I always forewarned my clinic when I call them to let them know I had my blood done. Don’t want the poor nurse thinking I might break down on the phone… But now you’ve got me thinking that I’ll probably break down more when it’s positive!
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I’m so sorry hon. Big hug. I’m still keeping my fingers crossed for you just in case.
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Well, shit. I am so mad at the universe right now. And I am very sorry. I’d be giving up at this point, too, or 97.65% of me would be.
All that said, I have a deep underlying that faith that your little ones will come home to you. Yes, your first born did not choose this cycle to make her physiological appearance, but she is waiting.
Today, though, I am sorry for the disapointment. And she will come. Warm hugs and a mug (or glass) of something you love in the meantime.
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Thank you!!! Peppermint tea is my drink of choice. 🙂 I always say I know we will have children, I just can’t predict the when or how.
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Yeah, its the when we can’t control. Damn it!
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It is so hard to wait….I hope in the end it is a BFP.
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Aww, I’m sorry. FWIW, though, I tested on 13dpo and got a BFN. I figured then I’d wait just for my period to rear it’s ugly head. By 16dpo, it hadn’t, and I got my BFP. So one never know. Keeping fingers and toes crossed for you.
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Thanks! I know I have a slight chance still. It’s always hard to maintain that hope.
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Hang in there girly…your BFP is on it’s way…we just have to keep thinking that way and it will happen 🙂 Keep hope alive!
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I’m so sorry. 😦
That’s so heartbreaking.
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