Over the past two weeks, life has miraculously been falling into place.
We started on the kitchen reno.
My husband worked out some farming issues with his family. He also found out that he does not have to pay rent for a portion of land this year and he is actually getting a refund on his income tax. Whhhhaatt? That is unheard of! $ Cha-ching! $
I’ve been putting myself first. I attended a Chakradance session (maybe I will write a separate post about this?) and have been regularly going to yoga. I also signed up for an intuitive writing course in April and a Mindscape course in May.
Best of all: we decided on our fertility plan.
We are still taking our pre-planned 2 month break for my husband to recover post-surgery.
So far, sex has been… well… almost non existent? We have officially done the deed twice since his surgery. The first time, he was extra sensitive for a couple days afterwards. The second time, the sensitivity only lasted for a few hours. But, it still freaks me out when he winces while getting dressed. Poor guy.
Right now, I’m waiting for good ol’ and extra slow AF to start. I expected this cycle to be off since it’s the first one without meds in 3 months. Right now, I’m 2 days late, but have some spotting and signs that she’s coming. And NO I’m not pregnant. This honestly is the first cycle in FOREVER that I can say there is like a 0.0001% chance. We didn’t have sex until CD23 and that would be EXTREMELY late ovulation for me.
Next cycle, we are still on a break. I’m not going to track, but we’re not going to prevent it either.
We will start IUI Cycle #3 at the end of April.
If needed, we will start IUI Cycle #4 at the end of May.
After that, we will take a break all summer (no tracking! whohoo!) until the end of September when harvest is hopefully done. Over the summer, we will decide which clinic to use for IVF and get on the wait list. If required, we will move to IVF early Fall.
It feels good to know that we both agree on where we are headed. I’m still hoping for an IUI miracle. *fingers-crossed*
I also wanted to say A BIG CONGRATS to all of the BFPs this month. It feels like March was a much nicer month than February. Let’s keep this BFP train a rollin’…